The other day, I spent quite a long time with someone who was grieving the loss of her daughter. And I was aware of her own hurts that came from not having a mother who cared for her. And with her own children, she is giving of herself in the way she wished her mother had given to her.
How we fail our children. And how we feel our own parents didn't do certain things for us. All we can do is surrender all that hurt and pray that it will be transformed by love and forgiveness.
Thinking about generational healing, this song is probably my favourite to express what I can't say in words.